“My deepest desire is for you to feel understood. To maintain relationships that are rewarding, validating and give you a sense of belonging.”

Hi, I’m Benslyne

Growing up in a Caribbean environment, even as a child I questioned the dynamics I had seen between parents and children - the unspoken rule of showing respect to an adult by agreeing with whatever they’d ask. Any hesitation, non conforming behavior, or expressing disagreement would be seen as “talking back”. I always wondered why adults “got to say things and kids didn’t”. Witnessing those interactions, I recalled moments when also I didn’t feel seen, heard, or understood. 

Having experienced similar situations, there have been times where I’ve had difficulty putting words to my feelings, effectively communicating them, being assertive and setting boundaries. The work I’ve done as a client and the training I have received to be a therapist have allowed me to gain a deeper understanding on human interactions and how to foster quality communication and maintain fulfilling relationships. 

In my practice, I incorporate components from different therapeutic interventions that have been proven effective. Some of the most common approaches I used are Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Client-Centered Therapy.

How I Can Help

My role as a therapist is to create a safe space for you – that means, putting myself in your shoes, being open-minded, and taking into consideration your cultural background. 

You’re the main source of information about your experience. I firmly believe that you possess the qualities to help you reach your goals; together we will work on discovering what they are and how they can help you build and sustain healthy relationships.

Credentials

  • Registered Psychotherapist - College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario #009759

  • Working under the supervision of Michelle Sorensen (Clinical Psychologist) - College of Psychologists of Ontario #5770

  • Third Party Neutral (1-3) - Canadian Institute of Conflict Resolution

  • Masters of Education in Counseling Psychology - University of Ottawa 

  • Honours Bachelor of Arts with Major of Psychology and Minor in Social Work - University of Ottawa