Attachment Therapy in Ottawa & Westboro
Virtually Across Ontario

When you notice yourself repeating the same patterns in relationships – pulling away when someone gets close, constantly seeking reassurance, or struggling to trust that people will stay – attachment therapy offers a path to understanding why. This approach helps you recognize how your earliest relationships shaped the way you connect with others today, so you can build the secure, fulfilling relationships you deserve.

Our Registered Psychotherapists at Therapy with Empathy bring attachment-based approaches to clients in Ottawa’s Westboro neighborhood and across Ontario through virtual sessions. We help you identify your attachment patterns, heal old wounds, and develop new ways of relating that feel safer and more authentic.

Attachment Therapy is grounded in attachment theory, which emerged from the work of psychologists John Bowlby and Mary Ainsworth in the mid-20th century. They discovered that our early bonds with caregivers create internal blueprints for how we approach closeness, trust, and vulnerability throughout our lives. These patterns aren’t permanent – they’re learned responses that can change with awareness and practice.

Unlike traditional therapy that might focus only on current relationship problems, attachment therapy looks at the roots of your relational patterns. You’ll explore how your early experiences taught you to respond to intimacy, conflict, and emotional needs. This isn’t about blaming your past – it’s about understanding where your instincts come from so you can make conscious choices about how you want to show up in relationships now.

What makes attachment therapy distinct is its focus on the connection between past experiences and present-day relationship dynamics. You’ll work with your therapist to notice how attachment patterns show up in your life – whether that’s difficulty asking for help, fear of abandonment, discomfort with closeness, or cycling between extremes. Through this work, you develop what’s called “earned secure attachment,” learning to build trust, communicate needs, and handle conflict in healthier ways.

WHO IS ATTACHMENT THERAPY FOR?

Attachment therapy can help if you:

• Struggle with trust in relationships, even when people show they’re reliable
• Feel anxious about being abandoned or rejected
• Find yourself pushing people away when they get too close
• Notice you keep choosing emotionally unavailable partners
• Feel insecure in relationships despite evidence you’re loved
• Experienced inconsistent caregiving, neglect, or trauma in childhood
• Want to break cycles and create healthier relationships going forward
• Are preparing for parenthood and want to understand your own attachment patterns
• Notice the same relationship problems repeating across multiple connections

READY TO BUILD MORE SECURE RELATIONSHIPS?

Book your free 15-minute consultation to explore whether attachment therapy fits your needs. We’ll discuss your relationship patterns, explain how attachment work might help, and answer any questions about getting started.

Therapy with Empathy
Westboro, Ottawa | Virtually Across Ontario
Bilingual Services Available (English/French)